During the first series of apparitions at Caritas in 1988, Our Lady told Marija that She desired a community to begin.* She is, therefore, viewed as the Foundress of the Community of Caritas. Caritas, as a Medjugorje mission, had already become international. The founder had gone down the path of changing his life, transforming his family into a little community based in Our Lady's messages. With this request for a community directly from Our Lady, he did not know how to go about forming a community. Our founder questioned how he was to know how to choose who could join and who could not. He, knowing Our Lady asked for a community to be established, clearly saw Our Lady was the Foundress. Who was he to decide who could join or not? He prayed a great deal, and suddenly it became clear. For those who wanted to join him, if they accepted and put into practice the changes he had made in his own life, illuminated by Our Lady’s messages, they could come. Therefore, it was self-screening. Our founder did not have to pick and choose who would come. Many are screened out, for example, when they learn that they would be going to 5:00 – 6:00 a.m. prayer every morning, outside in every season, for the rest of their lives. This showed one very quickly if their calling to the Community was real.
The “way” of life that has bloomed forth from living the messages, is not an easy way. Much like any pioneer who had to clear a new path through a forest, it was often a lonesome task, but at the same time, our founder had very clear discernment and direction that was marked in his heart concerning exactly what was to be formed. This interior vision was something precise, not vague. A priest, who had observed the founder for some time, said as a priest he had never met anyone so clear in what way God was showing the founder to walk. This path in the forest that he cleared, through his witness, was followed by the Community. Through the witness we have shared, thousands have joined “a way of salvation,” that led them to put God in the first place in their lives.
A young missionary, who lived in the 1950’s and eventually was martyred in Ecuador by the very people he was trying to lead to Christ, wrote the following in his journal on August 1, 1950:
“It is good to think of the first days of the Church on earth when Christianity was not called merely a religion, or thought of only as a code of doctrine, but regarded as a “way”, as the book of Acts, Chapter 9:2 names it. Those believers had a manner, a way of carrying themselves, observable direction that so-called Christians today do not have. For a “way” is a display of patterned behavior-and what a display! Nothing anyone had was his own; all in one place with one accord while a spirit of love, responsibility, and conviction of truth possessed the whole. God send us one of those days, to vindicate Thy truth, glorify Thy Name, dispense the knowledge of Thy Son.”
Our founder states:
“We do not claim to be a holy people, though we strive to be every day, but we do claim to be living a holy way of life shown to us by the Mother of God Herself. Her messages are the ‘owner’s manual’ of living a ‘way' in a new time, originally given 2000 years ago, but now re-introduced in a new way to a society which has lost its way through technological advancements and many other modern clutters of life that have snuffed out the fullness of authentic Christian living.”
This new life has produced great fruit, some of which you are reading about here.
Click to read "One Mind, One Thought," which describes the words of 25 different Community members what the “way” is to them.
All religious orders within the Catholic Church have a Rule of Life that they live by. In the year 2001, the Bishop of the Birmingham diocese asked the founder of Caritas for the Rule of the life the Community lives at Caritas. He had never written it down because he felt we did not live by “a rule”, rather 'a way'. But upon the Bishop’s insistence, the rule of the Community of Caritas, “A Way” in a New Time was written. Our founder wrote it throughout the summer of 2001. And in obedience, he completed it on September 19, 2001, and presented it in a meeting with the bishop.
The founder actually called our rule “a way,” reflecting the way of life Our Lady has given to us, since it was She who asked, through the visionary Marija, for a Community to begin here. After the apparition in the founder’s home on December 13, 1988, Marija told him, “Our Lady wants to start a community here.” “A Way” is freely lived, out of love for Our Lady, by those who have chosen to accept the call to life in the Community of Caritas.
* After an apparition in the Bedroom in December 1988, visionary Marija, Pavlovic at the time, now Lunetti, said that Our Lady desired to see a community created here in Alabama.(Click for more about Medjugorje visionary Marija)